Thursday, November 19, 2009
I really wish I was friendlier or had more social intuition. Recently I have been very uncertain about whether I should say hi to classmates when I see them in the hall, computer lab, etc. At the start of the semester, I basically would say hi to anyone I had previously had a one minute conversation with. But now time has passed and I haven’t talked to them in two months and we once again are strangers. There are two classmates who live in the same area as me, but I have never talked too. Often we see each other in the neighborhood and we mutually pretend we don’t know each other. Today however I broke this boundary when I found a mitten that I had lost several hours earlier. In my happiness and my desire to not appear to be an individual who randomly picks wet dirty things off the ground, I told my neighborhood classmate, “Oh! I found my lost mitten.” “That’s good” she responded as she scurried past. And we continued to not know each other.
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Hahaha...I have a similar issue with some people in my faculty. Because we all pretty much know each other by face at this point, it's kinda awkward because I don't know if they know me or whether I kind of talked to them before but maybe they have forgotten who I am...also, some people are more openly friendly than others.
I think if you know their name, you should say hi. If you don't, you're not obliged. If you've only talked to them in passing, you can say hi if you happen to catch their eye, but you're not obliged otherwise. Maybe that would help? Otherwise, don't worry about it because obviously they're having the same mindset as you. It takes a little while sometimes to make friends, so just give it time:)
Mons, I'm impressed at how you're consistently practical, in a very helpful way.
As for the content of this entry, I agree completely. Our individualistic society has made it possible to live a good chunk of our lives with people we don't really know. C'est dommage.
Good luck, Meredith.
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